The Wellness Diary
Insights, advice, new research, tips and tricks, and new resources to help you with your mental health journey.
What Should I Talk About in Therapy?
Therapy, in its various forms, is a potent tool for personal growth, healing, and self-discovery. It provides a secure and non-judgmental space where you can freely explore your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors under the guidance of a trained professional. Whether you're grappling with mental health challenges, navigating complex life transitions, or simply on a journey toward personal development, therapy can provide the support, insights, and strategies you need to thrive.
Understanding Enmeshment Trauma: Navigating Through Intricate Bonds
Enmeshment trauma is a unique type of psychological trauma that occurs within relationships where personal boundaries are so blurred and poorly defined that individuals lose their sense of self. This can lead to a myriad of psychological challenges that may persist for a long time. Unlike healthy relationships that thrive on mutual respect, understanding, and a sense of individuality, enmeshed relationships are characterized by excessive emotional involvement and closeness with at least one significant other to the point where the individual's identity is consumed.
5-Uncomfortable Conversations to Have With Your Therapist
In therapy, if the client-therapist relationship is strong, it is much more likely that therapy will be successful and that the client will reach their goals. In fact, it may be the most influential factor in creating successful outcomes other than the overall skill and competence of the therapist themself.
4-Mindful Morning Rituals To Start Now
The way we start off our mornings can really affect how we take in the rest of our day. It can be really easy to get into a morning routine that feels like we’re on auto-pilot. Practicing mindfulness has been shown to decrease anxiety over time, so adding some sort of mindfulness practice to the mornings can have a positive effect on the rest of our day.
How I've Designed a Life that Reduces Anxiety
Even with anxiety, I’ve learned that there are things that I can do to make my life easier. Here are a few ways that I’ve designed a life that reduces anxiety.
Why It's Ok To Get Hurt: Life's Greatest Lessons
Our greatest growth often comes from the most difficult times in our life. Getting hurt is inevitable in life, especially when it comes to relationships. It's hard to always know how to cope and process everything when you are in the trenches of pain and darkness.
The "Never Enough" Epidemic: Stop Comparing and Break Free
With the creation of social media and technology, we are bombarded daily with images of lives that seem "picture perfect," which can leave us feeling like our own lives are dull and not good enough.
13 Reasons Why…Or Why Not: A Therapist's Perspective
The craze and controversy surrounding Netflix's new original series 13-Reasons Why has been trending on social media, with teens, concerned parents, and professionals. After hearing so much about this show and its portrayal of suicide due to bullying in high school- I had to watch it. Here are my thoughts as a therapist after watching the show.
Understanding Addiction: Lessons That I Have Learned From Working With Addicts
Most of us know someone directly or indirectly has been affected by substance abuse or addiction problems. Understanding why someone abuses substances or becomes addicted is very complicated because unlike depression or anxiety there is a belief that there is a choice, a choice not to use and to begin using in the first place.
The Perfect Fit: How To Find The Right Therapist
Making the decision to seek help can feel liberating and overwhelming all at the same time. Having the safe space to talk to a trained professional about your thoughts and feelings can truly help transform your life. The relationship between client and therapist is very unique, comforting and important. Knowing that there is someone in your life who not only is an expert but also truly cares about you and wants to empower you- feels good.